a kinda random thought that just came to my mind earlier on following from what my friend said:
all is fair when love is war.
it then serves as a reminder that when we love someone, we would defend him/her. in other words, we would not say things that tear down the value of this person to anyone else. what we say about people and to others result in an appreciation or depreciation of the value of the person in our eyes and also affect our love for the person.
help me to become a more loving person with my words. after all, our words can be hugging someone every day.
